For this reason he had to be made like his brothers in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.
Hebrews 2:17-18
The baby who was born in Bethlehem was an ordinary baby. He had ten fingers and toes, a round little belly, and he cried when he was wet or hungry. The line from the Christmas carol that says “no crying he makes” is optimistic, to say the least.
Jesus had to be an ordinary baby, like us in every respect, in order to fulfill his extraordinary purpose. He was born to make atonement for our sin, to make peace between our souls and God, and to do that, he needed to be fully human. That includes the temptation to sin.
Jesus experienced the same temptations we do. He knows what we go through. Our perfect and faithful high priest is not a glowering, judgmental, finger-pointing figure in heaven, waiting to smite us when we screw up. He has been here, too. He remembers how hard it is. Mercy fills his eyes.
The baby born in Bethlehem grew up to feel all the ordinary temptations and disappointments in life, and some not-so-ordinary (personally, no one has ever promised me I can rule the world if I just grant one small favor). He knows how difficult some things can be. Instead of rushing to condemn us, our faithful and merciful high priest reaches out to help us. It is why he came.
I am embarrasses how often even now, after following Jesus in some fashion my whole life, I forget how eager he is to forgive and to help. I still try to do everything myself, as if I can achieve something with God by working really hard. I can’t. Peace with God has been achieved by what Jesus did, not through what I do. I still try to sweep my flaws and failures under the rug, as if I can avoid trouble by hiding them from God’s notice. I can’t. He sees and knows. The foolishness of it all is that Jesus sees and knows and reaches out to forgive, but my pride and fear bat his hands away.
Sometimes the hardest thing to believe is that Jesus loves me.
But he does, and he will. That is why the baby in Bethlehem was born. He is our merciful and faithful high priest, eager to help and comfort because he knows what life is like for us. The baby in Bethlehem, at risk in a dangerous world, knows our own vulnerability.
He remembers our condition, even when we forget his.

Beautiful! I need to be reminded of this.
Bub got an Away in the Manger book from Sunday School this year, and it features an illustration of the most unrealistically beaming newborn I’ve ever seen on the page with “no crying he makes.” It’s good for comic relief, if nothing else.
I was raised Catholic and must say that, in my experience, the baby Jesus was big (but surprisingly slender) with a full head of golden, cherubic curls. And he was never crying, just hanging out, propped up serenely in his manger, modestly clutching his swaddling clothes and making his little peace sign.
So, yeah. I don’t know what you’re talking about, lady.
i want to thank you for your beautiful reflections. i am new to your site and honestly don’t know what denomination/religion you practice. i have been raised and am a practicing catholic. i have loved and savored every one of your christmas reflections – learning something from each that has enriched my faith and life. i look forward to learning more as i continue to read your site. thank you!
You are truly following a calling by writing these posts. I am just going to say, “Amen”, and add that becoming a parent has become, for me, the way I have come even close to understanding how our Father feels about us, His foolish, pig-headed, silly, beloved children.
Great post. It makes such a difference when we remember this, doesn’t it?
Beautiful Veronica, thank you so much.
I agree with Sarah. I am new to your blog and have truly enjoyed your Christmas reflections. Thank you, they are beautifully and lovingly written. You have a special gift.
Also, I totally agree with all the perfect baby Jesus comments! I don’t remember ever seeing or hearing about his cries or refusal to be potty trained! Ha!